Everyone gets in a bit of a rut sometimes. Whether it’s with who we are or what we’re doing in our lives we feel at a loss sometimes. We think we’ve moved past it only to find ourselves facing this problem all over again. Everyone says to write out our goals, and it helps a lot, but that’s not always enough. We need a lot more than that to help get us out of these holes. These questions are just the tip of an iceberg, but lets talk about what you really need to be asking yourself at these times.

• If you got the life you wanted and ended up still being unhappy what would you do to change it?
• Which friends do you find yourself wishing you were more like?
• If someone were to write a biography about you what would you want them to know that they might not know from watching your life second hand?

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